Have you ever looked at a baby's face? What is your first impression, what are you looking at, and what is looking at you? Yes, the eyes, is where all the information is going back  and forth. You are getting and receiving information and at the same time doing the same for the baby. The eyes are at work.

 

What kind of signals are going back and forth, feelings of concern, food, help, nurturing, and the essential bonding between baby and adult. It is here that one feels he needs to care for the toddler/baby or leave it alone. In this very few seconds the interaction begins. The sustain reactions would be a smile, an attempt to get attention from both parties. Sounds are exchange by the baby and the adult, each has his own language.

 

From the scientific studys performed on babies, it has been determined that if the adult sends quiet/soft spoken words to the child, not baby gibberish, the child will assimulate the information and develop learning very quickly. It will find that its needs are satisfied and he will conform to whomever is delivering the message.

 

Moral: Baby talk  is out, and adult talk is in.